Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Was Life Really So Great in the 1950’s?

Many Christians and others long for the good old days. The 1950’s always seem to be the point of comparison against today. The way they see it, life was just great then, and it’s really bad now. Well, the way I see it, things are generally better today when you look at the big picture. Who reading this really wants to go back to 1950’s technology? Who wants 1950’s knowledge about medicine and surgery? Or 1950’s attitudes regarding publicly institutionalized racism? Who wants 1950’s quality in filmmaking and music? It’s this last point that rattles the chain of many. Sex, violence and profanity is very prominent in the popular culture today compared to the 1950’s. But this is not true of every modern film or song. If I were a Christian in the film or music industry, I’d much prefer to have the technology available that we have today compared to what we had in the 50’s. And yes, while there are some great classic movies back then, on a whole the acting was not very good. Besides, does anyone want to go back to black and white television? Anyone want to give up their email or Internet access?

When it comes down to it, the only argument left is that we have too much sex, violence and profanity in the popular culture today. I don’t dispute this. But we also have to look at the big picture. Objectively life was not better back then. We whine that kids are too lazy today and don’t know the value of sacrifice. I generally agree. But do we necessarily want them to experience the same struggles our grandparents did during the Great Depression? Why exactly do we want to turn back the clock and make life harder? Don’t we want our children’s generation to be better than the one we lived in? Can not people learn responsibility today with the advances we’ve made?

In response to my earlier post regarding misconceptions that people were automatically more morally pure before the mid 1960’s, somebody left a number of interesting comments. Amongst other things, this person says:

“The schools continue to corrupt students. Now we have an epidemic of teachers seducing students. Until the 60s girls who became pregnant were expelled from school. Or they were quietly sent to homes for unwed mothers to await the birth of their illegitimate child. Now schools either advise students about Planned Parenthood and venereal diseases or they make accomodations for the students' bastards. Only "trashy" girls slept around until the New Morality took over. Schoolboys used to play a ball game called Smear the Queer but no children knew what queers did. They only knew it was something awful. Now, no child would dare speak the words "smear the queer" on school property but they will be taught in that school that being a queer is fine, that homosexuals are born that way and they have no choice in the matter.

”Unnatural as it may have been, TV actors who played husband and wife did not lie in the same bed. I still remember the first time I sat in a movie and watched simulated coitus. It was the late 60s and I was horribly uncomfortable sitting there beside my husband. Now simulated coitus is on daytime television, not even cable. For those who fancy themselves intellectuals, scientific sorts, one can, this month, turn on a travel program about a South American tribe to watch adult men and women filmed completely naked. The men wear a sort of phallic sheath of exagerated length but they wear no other covering. No attempt is made to blur the rest of their nakedness. Sin that used to be a source of shame is now a source of pride. Now "It's all good" as they say.”

Let’s break some of this down:

Is that really what we should go back to? Expelling unwed mothers from school and socially outcasting them? How exactly is that going to lead to anything productive for the mother or child? The way this person writes makes it seem like she’d prefer to make women walk around with the scarlet “A” on their clothing for the rest of their lives. And note the high view for the child: they are just “bastards.” Not little children also created in God's image who had no choice that they were conceived in unfortunate circumstances, just "bastards." A lot of Christian love here!

And just because we are opposed to homosexual behavior does that mean we should taunt gay people? Also, I’m not for sex scenes in any movies, but this person’s words reminded me the scene from Pleasantville where the mother and father slept in separate twin beds while holding hands and had never heard of sex. I think she’d much prefer this be the norm. When I saw that movie, it angered me because not only did it mock Biblical values, but did so in a way that pretended that all traditionalists were prudes and simpletons. Unfortunately, it seems that such individuals are out there and many of them are in our churches.

Isn’t it possible to hold to a Biblical Christian ethic without acting and sounding like an uncaring jerk?

In any event, people were not necessarily more moral back then. They are just openly now what they were quietly and hypocritically back then. Besides, there were a lot of other prevailing attitudes that reigned supreme during the golden age of the 1950’s. It was then when we still had “Colored Only” drinking fountains in certain areas of our country and racism was celebrated publicly and privately. So, we had problems then and problems now. The problems look a little different than they did then, and we face some new challenges. But especially for Christians, we should not cover our eyes and just hand the world over to Satan. We should not just “focus on conversions” and wait for Jesus to come get us in the so-called “rapture.” All of us, but Christians in particular should focus on personal and cultural renewal. This goes beyond just getting others to parrot a “sinner’s prayer.”

Much work has been done and much remains. Defeatism, escapism and phony separatist pietism is not honoring to Christ or what He’s commanded Christians to be in this life.

12 comments:

Robin said...

I've always thought that most of the Fifties and early Sixties "sword and sandal" epics were bad press for Christianity. In "The Ten Commandments" Moses (Charlton Heston) is a stilted, pompous character after his first meeting with God. In "Quo Vadis" the Apostle Peter is a doddering old man who speaks in a quavering voice. If this is what believing in Jesus does to the human character, who wants to be saved? (That was certainly my reaction as an atheist kid watching these movies.)

And don't forget the ugly, totalitarian school training films about how to brush your teeth, dress yourself, etc. We had to watch these "educational" materials as late as the early Seventies. Omniscient narrator versus the nonconformist jerk who learns in the end to love Big Brother.

Bill Barnwell said...

And let's also not forget to duck and cover, Robin!

Robin said...

We still had nuclear attack drills at the beginning of the Seventies at my elementary school. The teachers called them "disaster drills" and we accepted this without any explanation. They would pull out large blast curtains to cover the windows while we huddled under our desks.

I'm sympathetic to the "Duck and Cover" training films of the Fifties, as opposed to the ones that told you to wash you hair with bar soap. Better to scare the tykes a bit than have them ignorantly sitting or standing when the thermal pulse hits, followed by the blast wave.

Gene Redlin said...

A fairly large risk of babies being tossed out with that bathwater Bill.

I, being 10 years old in 1955, recall many things BETTER then.
The things you mention re Race etc certainly are worse.

But, there was an implied shame we don't have today. I never even KNEW was a queer was till I was a late teen.

I have blogged on this a great deal myself and might enjoy trying to see if there are not some things from the 50s we could try to recapture.

Examples:
http://northerngleaner.blogspot.com/2007/01/sign-of-apocalypse.html
http://northerngleaner.blogspot.com/2007/01/accepting-sinner-hating-sin.html

I'm not convinced things are better now, I'm not convinced things were worse then.

Bill Barnwell said...

Who is throwing the baby out with the bathwater, Gene? What exactly in your mind was so great about 1955 other than the fact that we could mockingly refer to gays as queers and not recieve any negative social sanctions from "the liberals"? Yes, some things in those days were preferable to ours. But on a whole, I don't know many people who really want to go back and live in the 50's.

The links you posted cite two other examples. On a whole people go to church less today, that's true. But how many were just filling up pews then? Also religious and spiritual fervor amongst Christians in higher today in many respects than it was then. Around the world the persecuted church continues to expand. In some countries, Christianity is exploding. In our own, we have less people just sitting in the pews but we have more active and influential Christians than in previous generations (this is not always a good thing though such as the Christian Right cheerleading of the Iraq War). Your other link continues to go on about gays. You say:

"I just wish they would all keep it in their pants and go back in the closet. I shouldn’t have to see this mess. Neither should my Grandkids."

I'm sure that's going to win countless gays to the Cross and really show them God's love. Yes, we do need to balance truth with love as you suggest. I'm just not sure your above sentiments are doing such a great job of that.

And for those who think the culture has never been as bad as it is today, I'd ask you to take a look at ancient Greek culture, ancient Near East culture, Ancient Roman culture, etc. Heck, take a good read of Paul's epistles and read interesting little antedotes about such things as a man in the church having his father's wife. Again, we have a long way to go, but it's simply not true that life is so horrible today.

Usuallymike said...

Having done the 50's I have to say that you have some good points - the tech is deffinitely better - not so sure about your surmise about how we treated pregnant ladies - we gave them respect and support at Muskegon Sr High in 1958 - and we did take on a lot of the social injustices - but you weren't there. Probably best statement is a "it was except when it wasn't"
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Bill Barnwell said...

Hi UsuallyMike, I'm glad to know that not every unwed mother was outcasted. I didn't assume this was always the cast, but was going off of some comments by a few posters from this site and the discussions I've had with others who were around then. In fact, one very godly woman in my church was kicked out of school and socially outcasted when she became pregnant before marriage at age 18, before she became a Christian. So these things certainly did happen, and apparently some wish it still did.

Christopher I said...

When we look back at the past we think of the good times, but conveniently ignore the bad.

While the 'fifties didn't have computers, the internet, e-mail, cell-phones, colour and digital TVs,
and all the other technologies we think we can't do without, those of us who grew up in the 'fifties didn't miss them because we couldn't even imagine them.

What you've never had you don't miss.

Perhaps the question about whether the 'fifties are better than today, might best be answered in terms of individual happiness.

Were Americans then, happier than they are today? Were they less anxious then, than they are today?

This may have been the case for white heterosexual Americans. But what about for Americans of colour, or of other minority groups?

In the 'fifties we feared the polio epidemics which raged each year, and there were no car seatbelts. The virtual eradication of polio, and much safer cars are things I, as a product of the 'fifties, don't take for granted, and am thankful for.

All eras are a mixed bag, but I think ours is the best, for all the reasons you laid out in your essay.

I still remember an axiom I stumbled upon a few years ago which said: We should not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around us in awareness.

MrMattyB said...

There are several things that I prefer to the 50's: Kids were more respectful, girls dressed more conservative, there were less children born out of wedlock, probably from less sex outside of marriage, and most likely fewer abortions, homosexuality was not thrown at us at every turn, tv was clean, movies were clean, and so was music, there seemed to be even a universal respect for God's Word, Church and Pastors, and there was less divorce. When it comes to technology and medicine, yes 2007 has it beat, but when it comes to morals, I'll take the 50's any day.

Sarah Koopmans said...

Bill, I loooove the witty sarcasm! And I'm impressed at your awareness and balanced presentation of your points.

I hear all you "old guys" (meant totally lovingly and respectfully) that saw the 'fifties about how things in those days were familiar to you and so you attach a certain amount of meaning to them.

As a history lover, I've always wondered what living in another decade or era might have been like. But I've realized that each generation has its glories and its depravities.

We all know the depravities of this day and age. Here are a few of its glories: Today, people fight for women and children who are being prostituted, and for finding cures for AIDS and cancers. Today, millions of dollars are being given to help feed orphans and refugees. Today, women are finally coming into their own in the church. Today, more and more people worldwide are being reached with the gospel because we can travel more quickly and easily to remote places. Today, our media allows atrocities such as Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) to come to the light in order that fewer girls and women might be violated.

Our attitudes and perspectives are different in this day and age, but basic human strengths and weaknesses remain. With more knowledge comes more responsibility. Sure, there also come more ways to cheat, lie, steal, and be tempted, but God is still relevant in today's world--he is still providing examples for holiness, and ways to avoid temptation and sin. And there are still many people that choose holiness!

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